Supporting The Transition From Primary To Upper Primary

So the time has come for your baby to take one of their first big steps and move on from ‘baby’ school to ‘big’ school! Whether it’s your first child or your fourth, it still gets you every time! “Are they ready? They’re so little! Will they be okay?” And the answer is yes, yes, yes! We are very lucky in Gibraltar that most of our Lower Primary Schools are in the same building, or right next door to, the Upper Primary School that children transition to, making the move so much more smooth.

Transitioning from lower primary to upper primary can be a significant step for both children and parents. Here are some pieces of advice to help make the transition smoother:

Transition Primary To Upper Primary

1. Make sure that your child knows where their new school is.

Visits to the middle school before the transition will help them become familiar with the surroundings. This can alleviate anxiety and make them feel more comfortable. This is normally done with their class during school hours, arranged by the school if your child is moving school within your catchment area. If your child is transferring into/out of the catchment area get in touch with the new school and ask to arrange a visit.

2. Encourage independence

Upper primary often brings more responsibilities for students. Encourage your child to take ownership of their belongings, organize their tasks, and develop a sense of independence. Gradually let them handle tasks on their own to build confidence.

3. Communicate with the school

Establish open communication channels with the middle school staff. Attend orientation sessions, parent-teacher meetings, and stay updated on school policies and procedures. This ensures you are well-informed and can address any concerns or questions.

4. Maintain a positive attitude

Emphasize the exciting aspects of middle school, such as new friends, opportunities to explore different subjects, and engaging in extracurricular activities. A positive attitude will help your child approach the transition with enthusiasm.

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5. Encourage social connections

Help your child foster new friendships by encouraging them to participate in extracurricular activities or clubs of their interest. This can provide a sense of belonging and make the transition easier.

6. Support organization and time management

Upper primary may involve juggling multiple subjects and homework. Assist your child in developing effective organizational and time management skills. Teach them techniques such as creating a schedule or using a planner.

7. Stay involved in their education

Stay engaged in your child’s academic journey by asking about their day, reviewing their homework tasks and showing interest in their progress. This involvement reinforces the importance of education and demonstrates your support.

8. Address any concerns

 If your child expresses concerns or anxieties about the transition, listen attentively and validate their feelings. Offer reassurance and problem-solving strategies to help alleviate their worries.


Remember, each child’s transition experience may differ, so tailor your approach based on their unique needs. With your support and guidance, they will adapt to their new school environment smoothly. By providing a nurturing and supportive environment, you can help your child navigate the transition to upper primary school successfully. Remember to be patient, understanding, and celebrate their achievements along the way.

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About the author:

Our lifelong friend and new guest author, Nicola Smith, wrote this blog post.

Nicola is a lover of life, good food and travelling. Wife, mum, doggie mum and for the past 23 years, she has passionately served as a primary teacher, illuminating the lives of countless young minds with her unwavering dedication and expertise.

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